Popping a girl’s cherry is a popular male fantasy…
but if they stopped to consider the reality of the situation, the fantasy might start to look more like a friggin’ nightmare. It may be an ego boost to imagine being a girl’s first and taking her precious virginity, being the first to have your name written in her book of love. However, there are aspects of making her a woman that could be less than pleasurable. So, before you unlock that chastity belt, get an idea of what you’re getting yourself into. Here are five reasons not to sleep with a virgin that you should consider before (ahem) entering uncharted territory.
1- There’s extra prep work
Unlike a more experienced woman (like us), a virgin really doesn’t know what to expect. This means that you’re going to have to put in some effort before the deed is done and plan ahead to make sure that she’s comfortable and completely willing. It may take some considerable convincing on your part to get her into bed, and while that isn’t one of our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin, your seduction skills will certainly be put to the test when it comes to taking a girl’s virginity. Also, the older she is, the harder it will be. If she has managed to protect her virtue all through high school and into her 20s, it will be that much more difficult to persuade her that your the one she was meant to give it up to.
2- There’s a freak-out potential
When it comes to having sex with a virgin, the potential for her to freak out before, during or after the sex is quite high. She may decide at the last minute that she doesn’t want to go through with it or she may feel massively guilty afterward for having done it. Because so much importance is put on her virginity, her first time is bound to be an emotional experience, which means that you might have to deal with panic, tears, guilt, and other unpleasant reactions, such as her locking herself in the bathroom and crying hysterically about how she can’t believe she waited all those years for THAT. She has probably imagined and romanticized about the event for a long time and wants it to go absolutely perfect. If even the slightest thing doesn’t go according to plan, it could result in tears and tantrums. If you don’t like watching girls cry, don’t sleep with virgins. That’s a lot of pressure and that’s why it’s among our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin.
3- She’ll likely get attached
It is fairly likely that a recently “devirginized” girl will expect to have a lasting connection and possible a relationship with the guy that bedded her. If you’re not planning on becoming her boyfriend, or at least continuing to date her, don’t fuck her. It’s really that simple. Very few girls imagine their first time with someone who drops off the face of the earth immediately afterward, never to be heard from again. She’s going to want you to stick around, so if a relationship is not in your plan, consider this point in our list of five reasons not to sleep with a virgin and find someone else to share your bed with.
4- She lacks skills
Since she’s inexperienced, she’s probably not going to be that good in bed, and that’s a big reason not to sleep with a virgin. There are exceptions to this rule, of course, since there are plenty of skills a girl can learn before she loses her actual virginity. If, however, she has little experience with sexual activity in general, the encounter is not going to be all that pleasurable for you. If all you want is the power trip that comes from taking her virginity, then you’re golden, but if you want a mutually satisfying romp in the hay, you should look for someone who has had time to develop some sexual skills.
5- It could get messy
There is a possibility that by being the barrier breaker you could literally make a mess of your sheets. Being penetrated for the first time is likely to hurt her, so your should be as gentle as possible, and it could result in some bleeding. If the sight of blood makes you squeamish, devirginizing a girl is not for you. A woman’s first time can leave a very unsexy mess to clean up.
To some losing their virginity is a huge deal and it should be delt with as such. If any of the above things brings you pause, trust us this is not an activity you wish to take on, stick to the experienced ones and leave the devirginizing to the ones who know how to get a little blood out of the sheets! Until next time…
Kisses
Mistress Samantha and Miss Syndi
xoxo
