Glass used: Cocktail Chilled
We hope you enjoy this weeks concoction; let us know what you think!
BigKahuna
It sounds kinky does’nt it? Well it is, it is the art of using hot ass wax as foreplay and you want to try it; but how do you go about doing it? Do you just pour the shit on like chocolate syrup? NO! Do you carefully drip it over the nipples? Ouch! If you are not careful and cautious you could injure your partner or yourself – so how do you go about it safely and without both of you spending your evening in the ER??
As with any sexual act you need to talk about it with your partner - communication is the key. Does your partner want to try this? Do you want to be the one being pleasured with the wax or do you want to do the pleasuring? Once those questions are answered, you can proceed to the next step.
What level of intensity?
To figure this out, here is a simple way to gauge where in the spectrum you fall. As with most adventures, start gradually and work up. And we don’t meet start at the toes and finish on the face. Find a birthday candle - if you can’t find one, a regular candle will work. These types of candles are suggested because they do not create a large amount of wax. Let the candle burn for about a minute or so, until there is a small amount of wax available. Pour the wax into the palm of the hand of the person wanting to be pleasured. If your partner doesn’t like the feeling at all, perhaps wax is not for you. Stick to the chocolate syrup! If they still want to try it, start at a LOW intensity; do the same thing to the thigh. (Now remember if you are sleeping with a sasquatch then maybe wax should never be brought up as i doubt they would enjoy the feeling of clumped wax on their leg and chest hair and it looks like dingleberries have migrated to his body…) If they are fans of that location, try a MEDIUM intensity wax approach. If they are totally hot and craving more, you can then try a HIGH intensity wax approach.
LOW
This is a simple way to get the thrill of the heat of the wax as well as the texture. It is also a “neater” approach. Burn a candle to the point where there is a liquid wax in the approximate size of a quarter or more. Taking your index finger, run your finger along the edge collecting the soft wax (this provides the pleasurer with the safety of not being scorched). Take your wax-covered finger and dip it into the liquid wax. Then place your finger on the body of the person being pleasured. This method allows for sensual touching to play a large role in the foreplay. This method can also be used on more sensitive parts of the body, such as the nipples and neck.
MEDIUM
There are special candles available at adult stores that burn at a lower temperature than regular candles. We KNOW this, not like we have tried or anything… This intensity level brings the joy of pouring wax without the high temperatures. To pour, hand-eye coordination, as well as communication, is necessary to make sure that you don’t miss and pour anywhere the person feels might be too sensitive. LIKE HIS BALLS!
HIGH
Great care should be taken here – both in the amount of wax used and the body areas subjected to the wax!
High intensity uses the high temperatures of regular candles. A higher end candle with smooth wax is recommended, purely for cleaning-up purposes. Simply pour the wax on to the body of the person being pleasured. To increase the intensity and the reaction, try taking the wax off right away and tracing the path with your tongue or ice. Either is sure to send shivers through your partner, or shrieks, you know whatever. Also, to vary the temperature of poured wax, pour from different heights, or blow out the candle before pouring. A close pouring is hotter and more intense.
A FINAL NOTE ON SAFETY!
Although there is no need to shy away from erogenous zones, they should be approached even more carefully and with lower intensities! Don’t just go “C’mon baby” and pour the entire jar of wax onto his or her junk! The inner thigh and small of the back are easily accessible as well as fairly hairless examples of where to start. These are not exclusive approaches. To perfect the fun of hot wax, communicate with your partner and work out their likes and dislikes to create a foolproof system.
If you and your partner want to try this, please remember that very hot wax can really burn and hurt your partner. NEVER pour hot wax into any orifice (vagina or asshole, or mouth, or nose, or ear, you get the point) or onto the face (especially NOT near the eyes). Have fun, but be Careful!!!
YOU DONT WAN’T TO END UP IN THE BURN UNIT AT THE HOSPITAL!
Kisses
Mistress Samantha and Miss Syndi
xoxo
Glass used: Cocktail Chilled
We hope you enjoy this weeks concoction; let us know what you think!
BigKahuna
We want you to believe that hot sex anytime, anywhere and with anyone is acceptable. But let’s face it: IT’S NOT! In the real world, sometimes a single gal ought to keep her panties on and step away from a fucked up situation. Here’s when:
1. Because he cheated on you. He’s scum. He’s the scum beneath the scum. But you’re not. Why sink to his bottomless depths and give it out like candy on Halloween to get back at him. Will it really make you feel better? No trust us it won’t.
2. To gain someone’s love. The thinking here is, if you give him your goodies, he’ll feel all warm and fuzzy about you, and escort you off into the sunset with him forever. Pump the brakes. If there’s no guarantee he feels the same as you do before you have sex, there’s even less of a guarantee he will after.
3. You’re doing it out of pity. Trying to boost some poor idiot’s self-esteem, eh? Hmm. How about a cupcake and a motivational tape instead? Be a cheerleader for this guy, but don’t give him sex as a temporary solution for what’s probably a much deeper problem.
4. You dig his car. Really? You’ll have sex with someone just to ride in a shiny, new-smelling ride? Let’s think about the sense that makes.
5. To get something. Someone once said: “Use what you got, to get what you want.” Well, your body shouldn’t apply here. Plenty of folks have earned fame, power, even the rent money without doing the deed. Plus, making this a habit kinda puts you in, uh, hooker territory.
6. He bought dinner. And? You owe him a “Thank you,” not a night of hot, quick sex.
7. You’re drunk. Unless you’re at home inebriated with someone you trust, this is wrong on so many different levels. Don’t put yourself in danger and end up doing something you might not remember in the morning. You’re best bet: Know your limitations when drinking around strangers or make sure you have a sober friend with you who knows that without the alcohol, you would NEVER go home with THAT guy, even on your worst self esteem days.
8. Your friends are doin’ it. So you’re on a double date and the accompanying couple are gettin’ pretty hot and heavy. You’ve no obligation to follow them down that road. Suggest your friends get a room so that you can get on with your date and keep your panties on while doing so.
9. You crave attention. Trust us, the quick gratification isn’t worth it. Even if you’re lucky to have a good time, you’ll feel even lonelier in the morning. Adopt a puppy instead.
10. To be mean. Your best friend betrayed you, so you sex up the guy she’s digging. Pretty low, and pretty dumb. If he bites, best believe he’ll be laughing with his buddies about how he bagged two best friends. If he doesn’t bite, your ego’s a shattered mess. Spare everybody’s feelings and find a new bff.
Hope this helps you to distinguish good times from not so bright times.
xoxo
Mistress Samantha and Miss Syndi
Keeping in theme once again…we wanna know if you like it rough!
Cya all tomorrow with our Thirsty Thursday Drink of the Week!
BigKahuna
SEX WOUNDS:(n) Sex wounds may be identified by, but of course, not limited to: bruises, scratch marks, bite marks, mangled wrists, the absence of hair or flesh in areas, welts, missing earlobes, and/or unexplainable piercings, scars, or discoloration. Causes may vary from the basic use of nails or teeth to the more elaborate (and it definately shows) use of whips, chains, handcuffs, or various elastic devices.
Ok, ladies, gentleman, freaks, closet whores, bondage queens, manwhores, kinky queens….okay you get the picture. We all have done it, don’t deny that you haven’t. Sometimes you do it intentionally, other times it just happens while the intenseness of sex dominates you. You get a little carried away and suddenly as your tongue is rammed down a persons throat you taste blood. WTF?! They bit your lip! I’ve done it, I KNOW Miss Syndi has done it, and as for Big Kahuna, well we hear he’s a master of it. Still, it’s okay to get carried away, however, there is a limit to your animal instincts……
So you’ve been at it like the animals on the Discovery Channel for 48-hours nonstop? We’re not surprised you’re in pain honey. We have all been victim to the hazards of rough sex; carpet burns, bruises, sprains, broken bones ( it was only once!! and it was only a pinky!) We can only guess that if you have never experienced any of this you are having extremely boring sex and for that we pity you. For the rest of you we have help at hand. The following are some of our favorite pitfalls of rough sex defined just for you…..
